Dating Trends in 2023 and Beyond 

the changing trends and future of dating

Whenever you ask your single friends how’s their dating life going, you’ll probably hear first about their struggles. Dating struggles are real, so we should all be compassionate and understanding, even if we’re happily coupled. This also means that we can all learn about the upcoming or current dating trends and help our dear friends switch their mindset from dating is terrible to being curious and open to dating possibilities. Let’s look into the future of dating and the emerging trends that will change and shape our love lives.

There’s more than just one type…

Yes, we’re all drawn to one type of man or woman, even if we deny that our exes had some similar features. There’s a conscious shift happening among people dating as they are looking beyond their typical type. More people are open to dating people who are different than their usual type, as emotional maturity is preferred over physical appearance by around 60% of people dating in 2023.

Conscious dating…

With the rise of self-care and getting to know your needs and preferences, dating has also shifted towards a more conscious approach. People who believe and practice such an approach have decided to prioritize their authenticity and what they truly need from a relationship. It also means that they focus on individual and mutual needs and how both partners can fulfill them and contribute to individual and mutual well-being.

Breaking the traditional…

More and more people are embracing singlehood, as constantly looking for a relationship may be a sign of emotional immaturity, the constant need to be externally validated, and many more. While people as a species need human connection to survive, some people have decided to prioritize self-work and take a break from dating. While people focus on personal growth, they also step out of their comfort zone and seek alternative connections. From friends with benefits to seeking female companions at establishments like the Pink Palace e.g., they will try new things and explore alternative connections. We all have needs, so why should we rely on the traditional dating approach to fulfill them? It’s time to be curious.

There will be fewer taboo topics…

Money, sex, and psychotherapy will no longer be seen as taboo among daters. Especially among people in their thirties or older, having honest conversations is the prerequisite of even considering a person as dating material. People are more open to having a casual first date over a lavish dinner at expensive restaurants. People are becoming more conscious about their spending habits and dating expectations. This applies to other so-called taboo topics, such as sex and expectations of dating. Honesty and communication is the key to enjoyable dating. 

Swiping culture…

One of the dating trends that is here to stay is dating apps. However, people easily get fatigued with all the apparent options so they will be more mindful of dating apps. One of the ways to use the apps is to swipe on the day you want to get a coffee date or an evening date. With this approach, you set up a profile and swipe to get a date within a few hours. This way, you’ll be ready to give a person a chance and avoid endless texting without any date in sight. 

Self-love and self-care in dating…

Lastly, self-love and self-care are critical aspects of modern dating. Before you can truly connect with someone else, you must connect with yourself. There are many ways to practice self-care, and the first step is to be gentle with yourself. Learn how to communicate, learn how to set boundaries, and get into love podcasts like Jillian on Love on Spotify or any other podcast platform. When you are happy and fulfilled on your own, you’ll be a better partner.

Keep a positive outlook and an open mind when it comes to dating. Even though trends will change, the core principles of dating don’t. It still is all about love, respect, and communication.

author: Peter Minkoff

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